Haven’t been on earth for a long time but I have noticed some things:
Uno: Waking up on a Saturday morning with nothing to do that day is one of the best feelings on the planet.
Dos: Conversations with someone where there isn’t an awkward pause in the natural ebb and flow of words except to laugh or ponder is something you should never let go of
Tres: Holding back a fart is really not (read: never) worth it in the end
I have also noticed some “rules” that go into any relationship with the opposite sex. I will admit that I have not always been the best, and I have multitudes of things to work on, but there are certain things a young man should remember when being with a girl:
#1: Listen.
Listen. Actively listen. Listen with the purpose to contribute. For no other reason than to listen. Do it. Seriously. Moving on…
#2: Remember.
Remember the little things. Remember the big things. It shows you care.
#3: Forgive.
She’s not perfect. Moreover, you’re not perfect. Take the time to forgive. Take some time to yourself and remind yourself of why you are here.
#4: Be sincere and honest.
Be who you are. Not what she wants or what she needs but who you are. This might be the hardest because who we are is not the projections of what we want others t0 see. But sincerity can go a long way. Sincerity in all things allows you to see the whole picture. With sincerity comes honesty and with honesty comes truth. Isn’t truth a good foundation for love?
#5: Be a loser.
Don’t be afraid to lose. Don’t be afraid to lose a fight, lose some pride, or lose something you want. Sometimes we think that we just need to stand up this one time, and sometimes you do, but most of the time it’s an excuse to win. To be known as the winner. And all that gets you is a very hollow victory.
#6: Talk.
For some reason, it’s a true measure of masculinity not to talk. As if you really don’t have something on your mind. Talk to her. She should be willing to listen. And talking makes listening a million times easier.
#7: She likes you.
She likes you. Say it with me: “She likes me.” Now say it slowly: “She…likes…me.” Now say it in an English acc…I’m getting off-track. Look, she’s into you. Don’t forget that.
#8: Treat her with respect.
This can manifest itself in many ways. From her mind to her body and everything in between. Treat her with respect even when you disagree and it gets really hard not to.
We all mess this up. In fact, it’s inevitable no matter how hard you try. But one of the measures of a healthy relationship is a desire by both parties involved to work at all of these things.
God Bless.
A.D.A.
Gentlemen of Sport 
Great advice.
This is great advice. It seems so easy you know? the way you say it, but it is hard at the same time. I think life is hard because we make it complicated.
I enjoyed your 8 rules for relationships with the opposite sex. As a woman, I feel they are just as important for us to keep in mind. Excellent rules!
My pastor says, “If you think a relationship should be 50:50, you’re wrong. It’s 100:0 in both directions.” Nice blog. Keep on.
Very nice post and great advice. 🙂
Kudos on an awesome post. I’d like to plaster this all over Times Square. 🙂 You are very wise.
Being the ” loser ” is the most hardest one that I think a guy should take in sometimes. I have 3 brothers, so even though I am not in a relationship with them, I clearly do feel that its tough for them to just take it in and wait for the right moment.
Wow I like the layout of your page… and this article is a good reminder of how to stay grounded in a relationship or while dating… Oh, and thanks for hitting up my blog.
Great advice!